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“And he [Samson] came up, and told his father and his mother, and said, I have seen a woman in Timnath of the daughters of the Philistines: now therefore get her for me to wife” (Judges 14:2).

Most Christian young people are aware of the danger of marrying an unbeliever and would probably never consider it. But I would take it a step further: even though someone is a Christian, DO NOT even consider anyone who is not an active growing Christian!

Our young people are probably going to get what they are. If they’re spiritual, they’re probably going to marry a spiritual person. If they’re carnal, they’re probably going to marry a carnal person. There may be some exceptions to this; and there have been times when one person has deceived the other person; but generally speaking, the principle is true. Proverbs 27:19 says, “As in water face answereth to face, so the heart of man to man.” This is a principle that God has built into life. Like attracts like. The people you like being around are a reflection of your own spirit.

If you are a young person committed to following God’s ways, God will likely bless you with a life partner that is equally committed and you have the potential of having a wonderful marriage. BUT if you are careless or indifferent about spiritual things then God will give you (or let you have) someone very much like yourself.

This was certainly true in the life of Samson: “And Samson went down to Timnath, and saw a woman in Timnath of the daughters of the Philistines.  And he came up, and told his father and his mother, and said, I have seen a woman in Timnath of the daughters of the Philistines: now therefore get her for me to wife” (Judges 14:1-2). Samson isn’t seeking his parent’s counsel and advice. Samson is telling his parents what to do!

Listen to the appeal of his concerned parents: “Is there never a woman among the daughters of thy brethren, or among all my people, that thou goest to take a wife of the uncircumcised Philistines? And Samson said unto his father, Get her for me; for she pleaseth me well” (Judges 14:3).

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Had Samson been seeking God’s best for his life, this story would most certainly have turned out differently.

Morris Hull
Home Life Ministries

*Credit to Dr. S.M. Davis for his helpful insight into this passage.

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“And he said, Blessed be the LORD God of my master Abraham, who hath not left destitute my master of his mercy and his truth: I being in the way, the LORD led me to the house of my master’s brethren” (Genesis 24:27).

If you aren’t praying for your children, then who is? Given the pressures placed upon young people in our society today, your children need prayer! And if you aren’t praying daily for them, then it is very likely that they have no one else to plead for them before the throne of grace.

But what should you be praying for your children?

Pray that they will be kept from the wrong mate and saved for the right one.

After your children’s salvation, one of the most important decisions they will ever make is who they will marry. Yet so many young people today base their decision on nothing more than emotions. The only basis for a young Christian couple to consider marriage is not that they feel “love” for each other but the assurance that God has brought them together.

God has an incredible plan and purpose for each one of our lives. Paul says in 1 Corinthians 2:9, “But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him.”

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Abraham gave his servant the task of finding a bride for his son Isaac. That choice was not left to chance or feelings. God had someone very specific in mind. The servant later testified, “I being in the way, the LORD led me to the house of my master’s brethren” (Genesis 24:27).

One of the major reasons why couples do not enjoy the oneness and harmony in their marriage that God intends is because God was left out of the decision making process right at the beginning. God has a very specific plan and purpose for our children’s lives and that includes who they should and should not marry. Pray diligently that they will be kept from the wrong mate and saved for the right one.

Morris Hull
Home Life Ministries

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